What Do I Want In Life?

I recently listened to an old recording by Earl Nightingale, on the power of focussing on what you really want. Not just writing it down and expecting the universe to manifest it for you. But making a decision, prioritising it,… Continue Reading →

Putting Out Fires To Stay Small

I wonder if I create small stresses in my life to distract me from dealing with bigger challenges. Perhaps it’s a responsibility thing.   In the short term that might look like hangovers, fire-fighting or stressing over small decisions. In… Continue Reading →

Building From The Ashes

I am a 42-year-old man. I have a good professional job. I’m married with a two-year-old daughter. And I’m on the brink of divorce.   It’s my wife’s decision, and ultimately might be the right one. She’s made her mind… Continue Reading →

How to Find the Purpose in Life – in 4 Steps

For 40 years it was almost all I thought about, how to find my life’s purpose. Now I’m not saying I’ve got all the answers, but I do know this: If you’re searching for meaning or purpose in life (especially… Continue Reading →

Male Midlife Crisis Behaviour – They don’t understand.

Forget the clichés. It’s not about buying a new car. It’s about how you feel inside, and how it erodes your life.   They don’t understand Before writing this article, I searched for the term ‘male midlife crisis behaviour’. Most… Continue Reading →